How Habits Can Make or Break Your DE&I Efforts

May 23, 2023 Updated: July 11, 2023 3 min read

How Habits Can Make or Break Your DE&I Efforts

Habits are powerful drivers of change. Habits can shape our patterns of thought, how we spend our time, who we interact with, and how we treat them. Unfortunately, when it comes to DE&I, many of us lack the daily practice and discipline that it takes to make our efforts stick.

As a result, we see DE&I (diversity, equity, inclusion, and belonging) as buzzwords. These DEI terms show up in statements and social media blasts but are starkly absent where it matters. In deciding who gets opportunities, which candidates advance in the DEI hiring process, and the small, daily interactions in the workplace.

Sticky DEI Habits

This disparity between talk and action makes perfect sense when we consider how difficult it is to form, let alone change, habits. We can all relate to resolving to make a change in our lives, only to fall back into our old ways after just a few days. Be it waking up earlier, making the bed each day, or drinking more water. We overestimate the ease with which we can change.

Taking a pledge on inclusion, attending diversity training, or even genuinely desiring to do better will have the same outcome as attempting to wake up earlier so long as we fail to form the habits that will help us follow through.

Habits are formed through repetition, meaning we fortify and retain habits through consistent day-to-day practice. When it comes to taking action to include others, treat people equitably, and embrace diversity in all its manifestations, some of us might be afraid to start. Others have tried yet fallen back into their old ways. And still, others may have made some changes, formed a new habit or two, and become content with their growth.

The thing is, there is always more to learn. People are unique, and dynamic, and we will never be perfect at understanding and including others. We’ll always be learning.

It’s Ok to Be Uncomfortable

Habit change is uncomfortable! Discomfort is always involved in the formation of positive habits. Whether you need to start learning how to listen and include or keep going, knowing that resistance is normal and necessary is key. What matters is that you stick with it.

Maybe you commit to asking a coworker you’ve been avoiding how to pronounce their unfamiliar-sounding name. No matter how long you’ve stalled doing so. Perhaps you decide to add a tool to your hiring process to redact candidate resumes, bringing a layer of checks and balances to your decision-making.

Or you resolve to share your pronouns to create space for others to do the same during each interview you conduct. Whatever your endeavor, keep in mind that though uncomfortable at first, you are building momentum that will fuel you to keep going.

It’s All Downhill From Here

The good news is habits become easier and more automatic over time. We expend less time and energy executing a given habit as time passes. Those small moments of discomfort you feel when first embarking on your new habit journey will begin to fade as the habit becomes second nature.

Stopping to learn how to pronounce a new coworker’s name from the get-go will become natural. Putting checks in place to make more inclusive hiring decisions throughout the entire process will begin to shape how you think a qualified candidate looks, speaks, and acts. These small habit changes you make to your actions will, in turn, shape the way you think about other people.

We’re all capable of forging lasting change in how we think and behave. It’s just that we’re not all practiced in embracing discomfort and following through to form positive and lasting habits. If we all commit to building habits of inclusion, the compound effects individually and collectively will be more significant than we could imagine amidst the initial discomfort.


Scot is a successful HR technology entrepreneur and advocate for conscious inclusion. Passionate about helping others succeed, he’s committed to improving the hiring process for employers and job-seekers every step of the way.

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